Lube is always a good idea. In working with hundreds of people each year at my practice and in group therapy, I have seen how this humble product can single handedly transform sex lives. Lubricant can be used to help make sex even more pleasurable, and it should be used every single time you explore foreplay, sex avec toys, outercourse, penetrative sex, masturbation, le génital massage and really anything you like - lube is designed for all persuasions and occasions. It works to reduce friction between you and another person, object or body part in any sexual experience and add to the sensations of pleasure.
Some people may use it when they experience dryness, or if they feel their body doesn't lubricate sufficiently, which can lead to discomfort or pain during sex. And whilst it is the ideal remedy to these painful or uncomfortable experiences, I want you to know that lube is for everyone! Each human is different, and has a different idea of ‘sufficient’ lubrication too, so remember that you don’t need to (and you shouldn’t!) rely solely on your body to ‘naturally’ lubricate, oh and spit is not an effective lube! There are products that are perfect for you.
But how do you know which will satisfy your needs? To help you find the best lube without having to buy and test dozens of bottles and tubes and packets and fall for empty promises that leave you lying in a pool of sticky mess... I’ve done the work for you.