PS: A lot of people automatically think that when attending a sex party, sex is guaranteed. This brings us back to my point (last week) about consent. Meet people and get chatting, be respectful and polite and hopefully the cherry on top of the evening will be a mind blowing experience for you and your potential partner(s)!
To give you an idea of what to expect the evening usually plays out as the following..
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Upon arrival you will be checked in. You will need to show your ticket and will be offered a locker in order to store your belongings. Most of the venues in Sydney are BYO meaning you bring your own alcohol along. The club will provide soft drinks and mixers. You will usually get changed and check your alcohol in at the bar and grab a drink. This is a great chance for mingling and checking out the crowd. Is anyone catching your eye? Have you got a great connection with someone that you would like to build on? Perhaps you’re just catching up with familiar faces from the scene. First time guests are often offered tours of the venue. This gives them the chance to ask any questions they may have. This is usually when a couple of rules are explained – think consent and safe words, then the fun begins.
People will start to head toward the rooms in the club. They might go to the dungeon, the orgy rooms, private bedrooms – whichever takes their fancy. People that don’t join in will often explore their voyeuristic side and watch the action taking place. Essentially it can be a very different experience for everyone that attends but I always hope that no matter how the evening unfolds it will be a positive and memorable event for all guests.